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What is Stress?

What Happens Under Acute Stress?

What Happens Under Chronic Stress?

What can be done about stress?

Sleep disturbances, eczema, headache, chest pain, high blood pressure, muscle aches, back pain, clenched jaws, tooth grinding, upset stomach, constipation, diarrhea, tiredness, sex problems, anxiety, panic attacks, restlessness, worrying, irritability, anger, feeling insecure, forgetfulness, inability to concentrate,  overeating, increased smoking,  relationship conflicts, decreased productivity, blaming others...

Do you know that the cause of all these problems can be chronic stress, or stress that occurs frequently?

  • It is known today that almost 80% of all diseases are linked to psychological and/or emotional disorders.
  • Stress accounts for adverse health effects in 43% of all adults.
  • In fact, it’s been estimated that as many as 90% of doctor’s visits are for symptoms that are at least partially stress-related!
  • Stress is linked to the six leading causes of death – heart disease, cancer, lung ailments, accidents, cirrhosis of the liver, and suicide.

Stress symptoms often mimic the symptoms of other disorders. You may think an illness is to blame for that nagging headache, your frequent forgetfulness or your decreased productivity at work. But the common denominator may be stress. Indeed, stress symptoms can affect your body, your thoughts and feelings, and your behavior. Stress may be affecting your health, and you may not even realize it.

There’s no escaping it: stress is a part of our lives. Many people consider stress to be something that happens to them – an event or an accident. But in fact, the critical factor is how we think about the situations in which we find ourselves. How we perceive a stress-provoking event and how we react to it determines its impact on our health.

What is Stress?

Stress is a failure to respond appropriately to emotional or physical threats whether they are real or imagined. A Stressor can be anything that disturbs the body’s homeostasis. A stressor (that which causes stress) can be:

  • Psychological and Emotional – job loss, relationship problems, work environment;
  • Chemical – poisoning, environmental intoxication;
  • Physical – injury, trauma, hot, cold, noise;

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What Happens Under Acute Stress?

Acute stress is anything that threatens survival at a present moment. For example, sudden noise, fire, dark place, physical threat, falling, an animal chasing you or anything else that can potentially harm or kill you.

Acute Stress is based on the fight or flight response which is a mechanism evolutionary designed to ensure your survival. Stress is a quick response to danger. It is characterized by change in brain function and physiological arousal. Your brain shifts into survival mentality and operates based on instinct. 

Symptoms of physical arousal include increased heart rate and blood pressure, sweat, pupil dilation. Hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol are released into the body. Adrenaline increases the heart rate, contracts blood vessels, dilates air passages and participates in the fight-or-flight response of the sympathetic nervous system. Cortisol is a steroid produced by the adrenal gland. It is released in response to stress, and to a low level of blood glucocorticoids. Its primary functions are to increase blood sugar through gluconeogenesis, suppress the immune system, and aid in fat, protein and carbohydrate metabolism. Digestion slows down and blood flows towards arms and legs so that the person can fight or run.

 

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What Happens Under Chronic Stress?

Chronic or prolonged stress is anything or anyone that disturbs the mind over a long period of time. Family problems, a difficult class at school, a schedule that is too busy, a death, divorce, project deadlines, conflict, mortgage payments, unemployment, long commuting, unresolved life problems, work environment, phobias; all of these can cause chronic stress.

Under chronic stress the mind switches into survival mentality. A person falls back on what they already know and stop exploring new ideas. Creativity and critical thinking are shot down. Perception changes from future oriented thinking towards present oriented thinking.

Creative new ideas can elicit a feeling uncertainty or even aggression because they are unfamiliar and require changes. Change requires energy. The brain will resist any change because it needs all the energy there is to cope with stress. Remember that the brain does not know the difference between what it sees in the environment and what it imagines. If a person thinks about something stressful or unpleasant, the body will react accordingly.

In small amounts stress can be stimulating. But if we repeatedly react to situations beyond our control in a negative way, our health and happiness may suffer. Frequent and Prolonged Stress is potentially damaging.

Chronic stress can raise cortisol levels and weaken our immune system due to its immunosuppressive action. Higher and more prolonged levels of cortisol in the bloodstream have been shown to have negative effects; they can cause serious health problems such as: impaired cognitive performance, suppressed thyroid function, blood sugar imbalances such as hyperglycemia, decreased bone density, decrease in muscle tissue, and high blood pressure.

The immune system is a collection of mechanisms within an organism that protects it against disease by identifying and killing pathogens and tumor cells. The immune system detects a wide variety of agents, from viruses to parasitic worms, and needs to distinguish them from the organism's own healthy cells and tissues in order to function properly.

Stress could be one of many components in lowering the immune system, thereby making us more susceptible to a large array of diseases. Let’s take cancer, for example. Every day, our bodies are exposed to cancer causing agents in the air, food and water. Under normal circumstances, our immune system recognizes abnormal cells and kills them before they produce a tumor. However, research has shown that stress can hamper the ability of the immune system to do this.

Chronic stress makes you more susceptible to infections. It also increases your risk of autoimmune diseases, in which your immune system attacks your body's own healthy cells, as in the case of rheumatoid arthritis, multiple sclerosis, etc.

In an attempt to relieve stress some can even become physically violent, most often with family members. Instead of exercising to relieve stress, some people respond by overeating, eating unhealthy foods or smoking.

What can be done about this?

Knowing that stress may have a negative impact on our health, we still need to admit that we will never be able to be completely rid of it in our daily lives. The key is not to do away with all of life’s pressures, but to handle them properly on a daily basis.

There is a big difference between silencing and dealing with stress. Unfortunately most people prefer to silence their stress, ignore it, take prescription to relax, overeat unhealthy foods, smoke, consume alcohol and use other harmful ways of coping with stress.

Real stress management is about recognizing your problems and dealing with them effectively. Sometimes you can solve them on your own and other times you need someone who can help you solve the problem.

Chronic stress is one of the leading causes of major diseases and death. Many people experience symptoms of chronic stressed daily without being aware of it. Guilt, unresolved personal and family problems, boredom, lack of purpose, not doing what you want to do and doing what you don’t want to do as well as other problems could cause chronic stress. 

Overall, people end up spending more time and money on fixing serious psychological and physiological problems than time and money on preventing stressful reactions. If you care about a healthy future for yourself and your family members, take care of stress now while you still can.

"Health is not just the absence of disease. It is a feeling of total well-being on the Physical, Mental, Emotional & Spiritual levels of a person's life."  - The World Health Organization

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Illustration by BBPrivate
 
Last month I was interviewed by Will Sacks about psychosomatic illness. Will hosts a website dedicated to psychosomatic problems. His mission is to create an online database of stories about people who have recovered from. He wants share stories about psychosomatic illnesses from all over the world. Following years of mis-diagnosis Will finally found the correct diagnosis for his back pain and got well. You can read more about Will Sacks' story and stories from other people on his website: HealingFromInside.org
 
The Interview question and answers:
 
WS: What’s the difference between somatic and psychosomatic medicine?
 
IS: According The American Heritage Medical Dictionary, somatic means of, relating to, or affecting the body. Somatic medicine involves the cells of the body and is based on physical and biological aspects of the problem. The somatic approach is the traditional approach of western medicine and it usually deals with the symptoms of the problem. For example, a person comes to see a doctor and describes his/her symptoms. The doctor writes a drug prescription to get rid of the symptoms.
 
Psychosomatic means that a physical condition is caused or greatly influenced by psychological factors. The psychosomatic approach to health views illness as a form of communication between the conscious and the unconscious mind through the body. The psychosomatic approach sees Illness as a person’s way of adapting to an environment. It is a message that communicates a need for change. However, very few people interpret their illness as a form of communication or symptom of a deeper problem that needs to be dealt with. The most common solution today is to ignore the message and try to get rid of the symptoms.
 
Examples of psychosomatic illness include:
 
1. Illness as a socially accepted way of avoiding something unpleasant.
 
2. Illness as a subconscious mechanism of defense. There are many situations that people would rather avoid rather than deal with.
 
3. Illness as a cry for love, attention and warmth. When people get sick, they get attention, love and warmth from family members or friends.
 
4. Illness that signals a purpose crisis. There is a point in time when people begin to ask the question - What is the purpose of my life? Unable to answer this question, some people turn their illness into their purpose in life. Everything begins to revolve around it.
 
WS: Can you tell your own story with psychosomatic illness?
 
IS: At the age of 10 years old, I got infected with the Mumps virus. It was summer and all of my friends were outside playing and having fun. I had a strong desire to cure my illness and go play with my friends. When I asked my mother for advice, she told me to think of the mumps virus that I had as an intruder or “bad guys” inside my body and that I must use my own army to defeat the “bad guys”. Without any doubts, and with strong desire and full belief in the story, I made a firm decision to beat the “bad guys” inside my body. My method was simple - lie down and visualize a huge battlefield between the good army and the “bad guys”. After intense visualization I got up and just continued my usual day. The next day the mumps symptoms disappeared without any complications.
 
At the age of 20, I had a skin problem where red spots were appearing on my chest and neck. For the most part it was a cosmetic discomfort that brought certain limitations to my life. The skin problem had a strong correlation with my mood and body temperature. Unable to solve the problem through traditional cosmetic solutions, I examined the problem from the psychosomatic perspective. After intensive personal development, I was able to overcome some of my psychological issues that were causing the red spots. As a result, the skin problem disappeared forever.
 
These are just a few personal examples from my life. The main lesson that I have learned from these experiences is that we all have the power over our body. Our thoughts can change the condition of our body and everyone can change their thoughts. In order to change our thoughts, we must first be willing to change. Neur Linguistic Programming, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy and Positive Psychology are some of the best ways to go about changing your thoughts.
 
WS: What did you own experience teach you about the western “Somatic” approach to medicine?
 
IS: The western approach to medicine has tunnel vision. People are examined as “cases” with “symptoms”. Very few doctors spend enough time to really understand each person as a whole. The entire system is based on profit rather than true health care. People are processed as case numbers who will consume drugs and deduct money from insurance companies.
 
Doctors practicing western medicine are very important and knowledgeable and can be crucial in life. However for many illnesses, most western doctors can help but not ultimately cure the patient. By no means do I say that western medicine is bad. I think that western medicine is some of the best medicine in the world when it comes to emergencies and surgery. I just think that the healthcare system has some major flaws in it that are not helping people, and in some cases cause more harm than good.
 
WS: What percentage of illness in Western society do you think is psychosomatic in nature?
 
IS: I have not run any scientific experiments or collected statistical data to give an exact number. However, based on my experience and research I would say that about 85% to 90% of all health problems in our society are psychosomatic. I grew up in a family of doctors and I have seen many cases. Most people have health problems related to their mind. In order to fix their mind or their life, we need to start fixing their grandparents.
 
There are three main causes of illness (Lipton, 2009):
 
1. Trauma - often serious and body-altering physical injury. For example, removal of a limb or a broken rib.
 
2. Toxicity - chemical disturbance that causes the nervous system to send “bad” signals to the cells and the tissue. (Lipton, 2009) The sources of intoxication can include GMO, various food additives, pollution, radiation, beauty products, drugs and other sources.
 
3. Thoughts  - accurate perception encourages success and misperception threatens survival. It is important to remember that cells, tissue and organs of the body do not question the information that is sent to them from the nervous system. Thus, we respond to life-affirming perceptions or self-destructive misperceptions every day. Our perception influences our fate. (Lipton, 2009) Our thoughts have the power to change our body chemistry. Some thoughts cause stress and some thoughts cause relaxation and self-rehabilitation.
 
WS: Why is psychosomatic illness so misunderstood and ignored in our society?
 
IS: I think that it is important to look back at our history. There was a point in time when the church was able to provide most of the answers to most of the questions. However from monotheism we moved to reformation and scientific materialism where the universe and the human body was viewed at as a machine. These were the times of Isaac Newton and mathematics. The next phase of our evolution was deism where there was balance between God and nature.
 
Scientific materialism began to shift attention away from God when Charles Darwin published his famous work - The Origin of Species. Our interpretation of reality shifted to natural selection, random mutation and the survival of the fittest. We then progressed to the DNA era where we started to see ourselves as the victims of our genes. Our fate was at the mercy of our genetic predisposition. Next came the human genome project which found that we have 23,000 genes which make us who we are. The genome project is an amazing opportunity for venture venture capitalist and the pharmaceutical companies to make huge profits. If the pharmaceutical companies can patent the technology to alter genes then they become in control of fixing and creating human bodies.
 
During the evolution of medicine many high ranking educational, medical and government institutions were formed. The foundation of these institutions was based on the material world - physiology, biology and genes. There was no room for psychosomatic approaches to health problems. However, we are now shifting towards holism where science considers both the body and the mind. Human beings are viewed as something greater than just a collection of organized cells. Unfortunately holism faces great resistance from well-established institutions that are based on the material view of the body and the world. The psychosomatic approach does not make profits for the pharmaceutical companies and would result in much lower consumption of drugs that treat only the symptoms.
 
WS: How can healthcare practitioners diagnose psychosomatic illness?
 
IS: I think the first step is to look at the person as a whole human being and not just as his/her symptoms. It is important to examine the lifestyle, family history, social circle, past, present and the future. I am not saying that we have to go into every single detail about their life, but we should at least give each person a chance to explain their situation.
 
There is also a placebo test that a health care practitioner can do to test for a psychosomatic illness. Take out some sugar pills and put them into a small glass bottle that will look like a remedy bottle. Explain to your patient that this is one of the most powerful remedies there is and that they should follow the instructions precisely. Tell them that the problem should go away in about a week. See what happens to them in a week. If their problem is solved, then it was probably a psychosomatic illness. If their problem remains the same, then you probably did not convince them well enough or the problem is somatic. Some recent research has shown that actual cures of diagnosed problems have occurred in this manner also.
 
WS: What are the best ways to treat psychosomatic illness?
 
IS: Think outside the box and examine people holistically. Ask questions and try to understand the problem. A good healthcare practitioner will help a person to understand the meaning of the illness so that it can be dealt with now and avoided in the future. A person cannot wake up in the morning and become ill for no reason. There is always something that the person did or did not do that caused the problem.
 
People should ask these questions:
  • What is the meaning of my illness?
  • What is the illness trying to communicate?
  • What can be changed?
  • What is the secondary gain from my illness?
 
One of the techniques that can be used when working with psychosomatic illness is to ask the person to imagine his/her problem. See if he/she can give that problem color, shape or movement. If the problem would look like something, what would it look like? Place it in a chair in front of you and ask the illness the following questions: What is it that you want to communicate to me? What is the point of my problem?
 
Listen to yourself without any judgment and notice the first thing that comes to your mind. What is it trying to communicate to you? Do not censor your answers.
 
When I asked one of my clients to place the problem in a chair, after a few minutes she had her eyes wide open. She saw her family member. She quickly confessed that her family member is a source of stress in her life, and that her health problem was a way to deal with this stress.
 
WS: How would our world be different if psychosomatic illness was better understood by patients and their health-care practitioners?
 
IS: I think that our society would take the next step in conscious evolution and conscious awareness. People would focus on progress and cooperation rather than destruction and competition. People would become more aware about their lifestyle and how much their thoughts influence their health. If adults would become more conscious about what they say, how they say and what they do, their children would have better lives. Most of the negative programming happens before the age of 6. Usually by that age, beliefs, values, attitude, outlook on life and life scenario are programmed by family members. If we could give our children the right programs for their minds, they would have a much better future.
 
Unfortunately we are still operating on principles such as survival of the fittest and profit making. It will take time but we have the power to change ourselves and make the next step in conscious evolution.
 
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Every day we encounter people who give us negative suggestions both intentionally and unintentionally. A common example of a negative suggestion that my clients have is the one that they got from doctors or parents. For example, several of my clients have been scared badly by their doctors when the doctor told them that they will never be healthy again unless they take the medication. Another common example is the cancer patients who constantly hear from doctors that they have only a few months left to live and that noting can be done.

Negative suggestions can range anywhere from small comments to important statements from the authority figure. Sometimes it can be irritating to hear and think about what someone has told you. However, there are situation in which negative suggestions can turn into negative beliefs and activate the nocebo effect. A nocebo effect happens when a person hears something negative which may not be true at all but the person believes the negative statement so much that it becomes real for that person.

The more negative statements we hear about ourselves, the higher the probability that we can start to think negatively about ourselves. Often these negative statements come from our family members or teachers. Some of the common negative statements include:

"You will never be smart."
"You are just not talented."
"You are not artistic."
"You are a failure."
"You will never be successful."
"You are silly."
"You have problems."
"You have social issues."

All of these negative statements have a certain degree of influence on our self-concept. Self-concept is the sum total of an individual’s beliefs about his or her own personal attributes. Negative statements from other people are not the only concern. People often create and rehearse negative statements about themselves throughout the day. Some of the common negative self-statemtens include:

"Oh.. I am such an idiot."
"I am a loser."
"I can't do it."
"I will never be able to make it."
"I have no self-control."
"I am fat."
"I am ugly."

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One of the ways to prevent the negative programming is to avoid negative people. However, this is not always possible and you can't really avoid yourself can you not? What you can do is become aware of the negative programming from self and other people. Once you become aware of it, you can change it. Here is how you can change negative suggestions:

1. Think of something negative someone has told you or something bad you say to yourself.

2. Think of someone you distrust. Someone who lied to you. Remember how they told you a lie.

3. Notice the submodalities of the lie and the negative suggestion.

Visual Submodalities: Auditory Submodalities Kinesthetic Submodalities

  • Number of images
  • Moving/StillSize
  • Shape
  • Color/Black and white
  • Focused/Unfocused
  • Bright/Dim
  • Location in space
  • Bordered/Borderless
  • Flat/3D
  • Associated/Disassociated
  • Close/Distant
  • Volume
  • Pitch Timbre (mood of sound)
  • Tempo
  • Tonality
  • Duration
  • Rhythm
  • Direction of voice
  • Harmony
  • Location in body
  • Tactile sensations
  • Temperature
  • Pulse rate
  • Breathing rate Pressure
  • Weight
  • Intensity Movement/Direction

4. Move the negative suggestion or the person who told you the negative suggestion into the submodalities of the lie. As you see them speak, notice how their nose is growing just like Pinokio's nose. You can even change their or your voice into the voice of the person or a cartoon character that tells a lie.

Reference:

Bandler, R. (2008). Get the Life You Want: The Secrets to Quick and Lasting Life Change with Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Deerfield Beach, FL: HCI. Add a comment

belief

Belief is an acceptance of a fact, opinion, or assertion as real or true, without positive knowledge or absolute certainty. Basically, belief is something that you take for granted without further proof. Beliefs can be positive and negative, useful and useless, strong and weak, constructive and destructive. Sometimes people form negative beliefs about themselves, others or the world in general. These negative believes follow people for years and usually do more harm than usefulness. Some of the common negative beliefs include:

"I am not successful."
"I am never going to be rich." or "Money is evil."
"I am a looser and other people are successful."
"I won't be able to achieve my goals."
"This is simply not possible."
"I am not smart"
"I am shy."

Would you agree that it would be useful to be able to change these beliefs at will? Psychology has many techniques and methods which can help you to change your beliefs. In this post I would like to share with you an NLP technique called Belief Swish Pattern. First lets practice and examine how your beliefs are structured.

1. Think of something simple that you believe strongly. For example, that The Sun will come up tomorrow or that you will drive to work tomorrow.

2. Notice what images, sounds, and feelings arise when you think about this belief. Are you really certain about it?

3. Examine the structure of your belief. In Neuro Linguistic Programming, the structure of your belief is determined by submodalities. Submodalities are characteristics of something that you are thinking about.

Visual Submodalities: Auditory Submodalities Kinesthetic Submodalities

  • Number of images
  • Moving/StillSize
  • Shape
  • Color/Black and white
  • Focused/Unfocused
  • Bright/Dim
  • Location in space
  • Bordered/Borderless
  • Flat/3D
  • Associated/Disassociated
  • Close/Distant
  • Volume
  • Pitch Timbre (mood of sound)
  • Tempo
  • Tonality
  • Duration
  • Rhythm
  • Direction of voice
  • Harmony
  • Location in body
  • Tactile sensations
  • Temperature
  • Pulse rate
  • Breathing rate Pressure
  • Weight
  • Intensity Movement/Direction

Go down through the list of submodalities and note as many qualities of your belief as you can.

4. Think of something that you doubt or are not sure of. Something that you think that maybe is true or maybe is not.

5. Notice what images, sounds, and feelings arise when you think about this uncertain thought.

6. Go down through the list of submodalities and note as many qualities of your belief as you can.

7. Think of the strong belief for a moment. Now think of the doubtful belief for a moment. Note the differences in submodalities between the strong belief and the doubtful belief.

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Now lets make some changes to your beliefs.

1. Think of a limiting or a negative belief you no longer want to have. For example, that you will not be healthy or that you will not be able to lose weight.

2. Think of a positive resourceful belief you do want to have. For example, that you will become healthy soon or that you will able to lose a number of pounds within a number of weeks.

3. Examine the submodalities of certainty and uncertainty that you have already elicited.

4. Imagine the limiting belief you want to get rid of. Now quickly move it off into the distance and snap it back into the submodalities of the uncertainty.

5. Right after you finish step 4, imagine the positive resourceful belief and fire it off into the distance and snap it back into the submodalities of the strong belief.

6. Repeat this a number of times. Remember to do this quickly each time.

Reference:

Bandler, R. (2008). Get the Life You Want: The Secrets to Quick and Lasting Life Change with Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Deerfield Beach, FL: HCI.

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1. Think about somebody who annoys you, intimidates you, or irritates you. Make an image of him and see him look at you in whatever way he looks at you when he is annoying you. Hear him say whatever it is he says and notice the bad feeling that happens in your body.
2. Take this image and make it black and white. Move it far off into the distance. Make it much smaller, one- eighth its size. Place a clown's nose on his face.
3. Hear him say whatever it is he says, but hear him say it in Mickey Mouse's, Donald Duck's, or Sylvester the Cat's voice.
4. Notice how you feel differently.Then distract yourelf for a few moments and think of him again. You will still be feeling differently about him.
Reference: Get the Life You Want, Richard Bandleraudio

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Do you have people in your life who irritate, annoy or disturb you? These are the people with which some of us have to deal with every day. Bosses, co-workers, friends, family members and even strangers can get you to feel bad. Sometime just thinking about a specific person can get you into a bad mood. Fortunately there is a very good NLP technique which can help you to get rid of the bad feeling and feel good instead.

This NLP technique can be applied to present and future states. For example, if someone told you something bad some time ago and you still remember it to this day, you can easily change your feelings towards that memory. If you know that sometime in the future you will have to meet with a person who irritates or annoys you, you can also use this technique to change your response to the future situation.


1. Think about somebody who annoys you, intimidates you, or irritates you. Make an image of of that person and see them look at you in whatever way they usually look at you when they irritate you. Hear them say whatever it is they say and notice the feeling that happens in your body.

2. Place a clown's nose on their face. Take this image and make it black and white. Move it far off into the distance and make it small, about the size of your big toe.

3. Think of your favorite cartoon character. For example, Bugs Bunny, Donal Duck, Eric Cartman or any other character that you find funny. Go back to the tiny picture of the person who irritates you. Hear them say whatever it is they says, but hear them say it in your favorite cartoon character's voice.

4. Notice how you feel differently. You may begin to giggle or laugh out loud. Distract yourelf for a few moments. Now, think of that person again and notice how still feel different about them.

Reference: 

Bandler, R. (2008). Get the Life You Want: The Secrets to Quick and Lasting Life Change with Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Deerfield Beach, FL: HCI.

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